If you and your partner want to spice up your foreplay or to increase the amount of oral sex or add an additional sensation to intense play, the top couples’ toys are designed with erogenous zones in the mind. For instance, the Fun Factory Manta vibrating stroker has ridges that target both the G-spot and clitoris of both partners at the same time.
1. Sex-position pillows
A sex toy is a great way to amp up your bedroom routine and make sure you and your partner are talking about what turns you on However, not all toys are created to be equal. Some toys for couples, such as vibrating pleasure rings and cushions for couple sex toys, are designed for two people, while others, such as dildos or paddles, are best suited for one-on-one play. All of the toys we consulted experts about can be used in different ways, and can make foreplay more fun.
The Liberator sex cushion is one of our top picks. It can be used either as a ramp, or a wedge. The covers are machine washable for easy cleaning. It’s particularly useful in closing the “orgasm gap,” a term that describes the disproportionate number of orgasms women have during sexual intercourse, largely due to inconsistent sexual stimulation. Sex pillows can help to level the playing field and ensure both partners reach their orgasm potential.
Another alternative is the Lovense Osci 2, a curving toy that hits the G-spot using powerful oscillations and can be used for oral and masturbation play, too. It was created by a neurosurgeon to be a medical device. However, its cult status among kinks is no secret.
The Jiggle Ball is a popular toy that was made famous by Fifty Shades of Grey. It promises to increase the strength of your pelvic floor and increase your orgasms. The balls with textured surfaces are safe for your body and are easy to slip into and out of the nozzle, and come in a variety intense air-pulsation settings.
There are plenty of other sexually attractive toys that are just as much fun for one person as they are for two. They include the infamous Wartenberg wheel and the cock-busting vibrations that were initially designed to test nerve signals, but have become a popular accessory in the kink world. If you’re experimenting with new toys, make sure you’re in a secure area. Also, make sure to use the right lubricant, usually water-based, to avoid irritation. Remember, it’s okay to change your opinion. If you aren’t happy with something, try another one.
2. Handcuffs or blindfolds
Toys can enhance intimacy in the bedroom and encourage communication. They also give couples new ways to play. It’s important to remember that not all toys can be utilized by two people. Certain toys, like vibrators and dildos require two hands to operate, which could be uncomfortable for some people. There are a number of options that are designed for couples’ play and are both comfortable and enjoyable to use.
This waterproof wearable vibrator, for instance, provides extremely quiet and flexible vibrations that can be controlled by a smartphone app. This is an excellent choice for shower and tub play. Its curved bulb is perfect for hitting the G spot. It also earned Zvolerin’s coveted stamp of approval!
The Lovehoney Finger Vibration is another great option. It is affixed to your partner’s finger and stimulates when they touch it. These are a great alternative to dildos for those who are more conservative or vulva-friendly. They’re a great way to spice up foreplay.
Try nipple or paddle clamps if you want to get a bit kinky. These tools are ideal for couples sex toys who want to explore their clitoral area. They are also a fantastic tool for closing the “orgasm gap” between males and females in heterosexual relationships. This is because clitoral stimuli help women achieve orgasm reliably during sexual contact.
For an intimate and enjoyable experience, try wearing blindfolds during sexual sexual activity. Blindfolds block one’s view and trigger feelings that they’ve never had before. This BDSM sexual toy is made of a soft, stretchy fabric and has a cute traveling case to store it in a convenient way.
When you play with sex toy, it’s important to have plenty of lubricant available. This is especially true for silicone toys which can feel dry or sticky without any lubricant. For a more smooth experience, go for a water-based lubricant or try flavored liquids such as chocolate or strawberry. These are more flavorful, and they are more fragrant than standard formulas. Of course, make sure to only use toys that are rated safe for use with your partner.
3. Paddles or nipple clamps
Some couples feel that nipple clamps or paddle clamps make them appear less attractive or appear less attractive. If this is the case, it might be time to try another alternative. The good news is that there are plenty of other fun, discrete tools to spice up your relationship’s masturbation. Realistic dildos, for example will surely cause laughter and provide unique external stimulation while the partner holds them. The Lovehoney Lifelike Lover, which has suction cup base and curving tip to provide the perfect g-spot stimulation is a great way to start; other options include dildo molds which allow you to mold the toy yourself to give you more satisfaction.
Many vibrators were designed to be used with couples in mind. They can be used to stimulate your clit penis, genital area or G-spot. It is important to consider the safety, comfort and how the toy will fit into your partner’s hand when choosing a toy. Make sure the toy you select is made of safe materials for your body. Silicone is a popular choice however stainless-steel and glass can also give you unique sensations.
The most popular vibrators are shaped like bullets and are available in a range of power levels, from low to high. They’re ideal to stimulate the clitoral area and are perfect for couples who prefer a more rumbly “manta ray” type of sound. You can even get a set of stackable rings that can be moved around the toy to achieve various penetration depths.
Certain vibrators can be controlled with an app for distant or local use. They also come with waterproof capabilities, an adjustable harness, and ultra-quiet motors. The Zvolerin Wearable Vibrating Toy, for instance, is a fantastic option for couples who want to spice up their tub or shower time. It has a secluded, comfortable fit and boasts an impressive runtime of up to four and an hour and a half. It’s also available in a sexually attractive black and pink colorway.
4. Lube
It’s a major step to introduce toys into the bedroom of many couples. So it’s important that you discuss your expectations and desires openly before you purchase. Sex and relationship therapist Katy Zvolerin, of Adam & Eve She explains that some people be nervous about using sex toys because they worry they’re being upstaged by their partner or they don’t have “the perfect body,” but she says the best way to use sex toys is as a tool to reach new heights of pleasure together.
There are plenty of options when it comes to sexually explicit toys. From vibrators specifically designed for sex with partners to masturbation rings and other items to help with penetration, the choices are endless. Dual-ended sex toys provide an additional level of enjoyment for both partners, and are especially popular among couples looking to increase the excitement of their penetrative play. The Dame Eva vibrator has soft wings that can be placed between the labia and the clitoral stimulation. We-Vibechorus is an toy for sex that has 10 vibrating patterns. It’s perfect for solo use.
Toys that assist with oral sex are always a great addition to any routine of masturbation, but it’s important to make sure the toy is safe to touch and compatible with sexually transmitted diseases. Zvolerin suggests examining the material of the item for a nonporous, non-retentive surface. Also, think about the lubrication. She recommends oil-based lubes like Roam’s yuzu and cucumber flavors, which are excellent for fisting and non-penetrative sex and silicone-based lubes which are safe to use on condoms made of latex.
For those who are ready to go the next level there are a range of kinky toys that are specifically designed for sex that is paired or utilized in a variety of ways during masturbation. Lovehoney’s Lifelike Lover, a realistic Dildo designed for g-spot stimulation, is available. The double-ended Strap-On Dildo by Lelo will be ideal for couples who want to add more excitement to their sex life.